When you think of an attorney, what defining qualities come to mind? How about peacemaker, problem solver, or counselor? Some people assume that in order to be a successful attorney, one must be aggressive and zealous. However, it is very possible for an attorney to advocate for their client while simultaneously encouraging a respectful tone and atmosphere among the legal disputes. This is especially the case with family law issues.

Attorneys specializing in family law are dealing with some of the most intimate and sensitive issues in people's lives. The attorneys should not be there to exacerbate the issues and differences between the parties, but rather, to help the parties cope with feelings of hurt or anger and to collaborate with the appropriate professionals for specific issues (e.g. therapists, financial advisers, etc.) Attorneys are educators regarding the law but they should also be guiding their clients to the right resources. The end goal is to help a family restructure in such a way that they feel confident about their future and their children's future.

I've had clients meet with me who were scared of their previous attorney. They were afraid to call the attorney and "bother" them and they were also afraid of how much the attorney would upset their spouse - "stirring the pot" so to say. It is extremely important that you feel comfortable with your attorney. Family law matters will often last for several months or even years; that is a long time to commit to a relationship with someone you're afraid to approach.

While it might seem difficult to view your attorney in this light, I challenge you to think about the personality traits you'd like your attorney to have as they guide you through a difficult and emotional process. What traits do you envision? How do you want to feel after interactions with your attorney?

Pospiech Family Law & Mediation, PLLC is focused on finding resolutions that help your family move forward. Attorney Jessica L. Pospiech provides a calming influence and gives her clients the care and attention that is so necessary for families facing difficult and emotional circumstances. Ms. Pospiech ensures that she is readily available for her clients’ questions and concerns. Please do not hesitate to reach out.

P: (734) 531-8554

E: jessica@mifamilylawfirm.com